Have you ever had nightmares where everything seemed terrifying—until you realized they were just illusions? But what if that realization didn’t come in a dream, but at the threshold of life and death, in the Bardo state, where consciousness stands bare, confronting itself?

According to the Bardo Thodol (The Tibetan Book of the Dead), after leaving the physical body, consciousness does not vanish immediately but enters a transitional phase before reincarnation. In this state, you do not encounter demons or supernatural forces, but instead, face the phantoms of your own mind—fear, desire, anger, and lingering attachments. This trial lasts for 49 days, a crossroads that can lead either to liberation or to an endless cycle of suffering, depending on how you confront it.
Phase 1 (Days 0 – 7): When You Don’t Know You’re Dead
🔹 Perceiving the world: You can still see and hear, move faster than ever—but no one responds. Those who die suddenly often feel confused, desperately trying to interact with loved ones, only to be ignored.
🔹 The trap of the mind: If regrets, anger, or pain are too strong, the soul can become stuck in a loop, reliving its last memories over and over.
Phase 2 (Days 8 – 30): The Illusions of the Mind
Freed from physical limitations, the mind enters its most unstable and unpredictable state. This phase can be radiant and blissful or dark and nightmarish—depending on one’s past actions and mental state at death.
Common illusions in Bardo:
🔁 Memory loops – Unresolved mistakes may turn into an endless nightmare.
👹 Demonic chases – No real monsters, just your own fears manifesting.
💰 Final temptations – Wealth, power, or love appear before you—but remain untouchable, reflecting attachments you have yet to let go of.
Near-Death Experiences (NDE) and the Science of Consciousness
Dr. Jeffrey Long’s research on 5,000 near-death experiences (NDEs) has identified common patterns:
✔ Out-of-body experience – Seeing oneself from above.
✔ Heightened awareness – The heart stops, yet the mind remains clear.
✔ Encounters with beings – Some see deceased loved ones, others encounter a being of light.
Scientists remain divided: Is this evidence that consciousness exists beyond the brain, or simply hallucinations triggered by DMT and endorphins at the moment of death?
But if these were just hallucinations, why do thousands of people across different cultures report such similar experiences?
Phase 3 (Days 31 – 49): The Choice of Rebirth
As the mind stabilizes, the soul faces two choices:
🌟 Merge with pure light, breaking free from reincarnation.
🔄 Re-enter the cycle of rebirth, based on karma, into one of six realms:
- Heavenly realm – Blissful but lacking opportunities for enlightenment.
- Human realm – The most balanced state, offering a chance for spiritual growth.
- Animal realm – Driven by instincts, suffering due to ignorance.
- Hungry ghost realm – Endless cravings, never satisfied.
- Hell realm – Pure suffering and torment.
- Asura realm – Constant struggle, jealousy, and unrest.
Lucid Dreaming and Lessons from the Subconscious
🔹 Sigmund Freud believed nightmares reflect unresolved anxieties.
🔹 Studies on lucid dreaming suggest that when a dreamer realizes they are dreaming, fear dissolves.
Similarly, if the soul in Bardo realizes that everything is just a projection of its own mind, it can navigate the 49-day journey with clarity. This is why Buddhist traditions perform prayers and rituals for the dead—not to drive away ghosts, but to help them recognize the truth and escape their own illusions.

⏳ No gods decide your fate. The only force shaping your next life—is your own mind.